Discontinuing In Person Services

After five years of doing full service, I have decided to retire full service sessions. I will be doing online content though! Here’s a simple breakdown:

Why?

I did not make this choice lightly. But ultimately it came from multiple factors.

Firstly, there were some concerns for my safety and well-being during sessions. There were some clients disregarding boundaries that had been put in place not just for my comfort, but for my baby’s safety. I had clients vaping directly into my face, doing hard drugs in front of me and not respecting physical limitations during my pregnancy.

Secondly, I’ve been struggling with enjoying my work for a long time. I’ve been kind of “burnt out” for a long time. I tried screening, I tried things to enjoy my work more, I did what I could to reinvent my work and myself and it wasn’t enough. Sometimes, you just need a change of pace in life and that’s okay.

Furthermore, I have had issues with physical limitations as my body changes. I’m not as energetic or limber as I used to be. I also get worried about the baby being harmed during sessions, which takes me out of it and makes it hard to perform. I’ve also had issues communicating these needs or concerns with clients. They seem to fall on deaf ears in a lot of cases.

Lastly, I want to be able to have more of a say in my schedule/life. Oftentimes my work is very short notice and I’m expected to meet same day or even same hour in some cases. That kind of flexibility is not reasonable when childcare is a factor in my life. Basically, doing online-only work gives me the flexibility needed to be somewhat of a stay-at-home-mom. Spending time with my baby is very important to me.

What am I doing now?

Currently, the plan is to do cam-shows on StreamMate, as well as content sales on other platforms. You can find information on where I perform and sell content on my contact info page.

I am choosing to see select regulars at this time. However, I am not seeing any new in person clients. If you are a regular, but I decline to see you, that does not mean you were a “bad client.” You may have more intense needs or wants that I do not feel comfortable servicing at this time.

What does the future hold?

Like most people, I don’t know what my future holds. My plan at this time, is to do online services, with select regulars for in person services.

In the future I may re-instate in person services, but I don’t know how likely that is to happen.

Thank you

I just want to say thank you for all of you that have been supportive and amazing clients over the years. I appreciate everyone for your support and the lovely times that have been spent with one another. My decision to end this chapter in my life does not come from a place of ill-will. It comes from a place of wanting to make positive changes in my life. I appreciate everyone’s understanding as I make this decision.